Purpose: To help your group members talk about important events from their lives.
Activity: Have each person in your group write down three defining moments from his or her life. (You'll want to have pens and paper on hand for those who need it.) These moments can include an illness or injury, a disappointment, an accomplishment, or a challenge. Be sure to give everyone enough time to really think the question through and write down their responses—probably at least five minutes.
When everyone is finished writing, tell the group that you would like each person to share one of the moments they have written down, and then briefly explain why that event was important. Be sure to emphasize that people don't have to share anything they are uncomfortable with, and certainly don't force anyone to share who is not ready or willing.
