My journey with leading small groups began nearly 22 years ago as a college student. Through small groups, I've had a front-row seat to women entering into a relationship with Jesus, being set free from all types of addictions, developing deep friendships, and seeing their marriages restored. These stories fuel me to continue serving in small-group ministry. However, the greatest joy for me is when a woman finds her voice and begins leading a group.
Small groups are powerful not only because life change happens in the context of relationships but also because they provide ministry and leadership opportunities to women. Here are five ways small-group ministry empowers women:
1. Small Groups Provide Healthy Community.
Small groups allow women to experience healthy, authentic community—maybe even for the first time. Sitting in my living room was a group of 30 women gathered for the first week of a study on Lisa Bevere's book Lioness Arising. Some women sat pensively in their chairs waiting for the group to officially begin. Others buzzed about the room introducing themselves and connecting. Every week, the group gathered to read and study the book, but something deeper happened—something more meaningful. Women's lives were changed. During the 12-week small group, friendships were birthed and women became more fully devoted followers of Christ. Some experienced positive interactions with other women for the first time.
Here is a beautiful testimony from Gloria, a small-group leader that has found fulfillment in leading groups:
Personally, I have changed completely because of small groups. I did not feel comfortable with women. Since my childhood I've had issues with women, but through small groups I have found that we are the greatest influence to encourage each other. I kept reading Scripture that talked about fellowship being important and how we lean on each other for support and confess our sins to each other so that we may be healed. Now I live those Scriptures through small groups with wonderful, godly women who love the Lord as I do, and we can relate to the ups and downs of life together. I believe that Christ saves us, but small groups grow us in the love of Christ.
2. Small Groups Provide Opportunities for Women to Serve.
Small groups empower women to serve others whether or not they're the leader of the group. The church I serve has several thousand members. The pastoral staff cannot effectively shepherd such a large congregation. So small groups are the place people are cared for. This provides lots of opportunities for women to use their gifts to serve one another. For example, if a woman has a baby, her small-group members coordinate meals for her family. Or perhaps a woman's family member passes away. Her small group rallies around her for prayer, encouragement, and support.
Sarah, a successful CPA with two children, was driving home from the office when she got a call. Julie, another woman in her small group, had been in a car accident and rushed to the hospital. Immediately, Sarah kicked into high gear! She went straight home, got her children settled, and started lining up meals for Julie. Once her husband was home from work and could watch the children, Sarah went to the hospital to visit and pray with Julie. Sarah didn't have to be the leader of her group to lean into her gifts and help Julie in her time of need. Small groups provide lots of opportunities to serve.